Unveiling the Intimate Journey of Cat Deeley and Patrick Kielty: Love, Challenges, and Resilience

Presenters Cat Deeley and Patrick Kielty’s relationship has captured the hearts of many as they continue to offer rare glimpses into their high-profile lives.
From their first meeting as co-presenters on the BBC talent show Fame Academy in 2002, to their whirlwind romance, secretive wedding, and the joys and challenges of raising two children, their journey together has been filled with love, laughter, and resilience.
Meeting on Fame Academy
Cat and Patrick first met in 2002 when they co-presented the BBC talent show Fame Academy. Their professional relationship quickly blossomed into a personal one, with the pair growing close over the years. Despite keeping their romance largely private at first, in 2012, Patrick confirmed their relationship.
The Secretive Wedding
After several years of dating, the couple tied the knot in a secret ceremony in September 2012. The wedding took place in Rome, at St Isidore's Church, a small Irish church near the Vatican, and was attended by their closest friends and family. The intimate ceremony was officiated by a Belfast-based priest and friend of Patrick's.
Balancing Family and Career
Cat and Patrick have continued to juggle demanding careers with family life. Patrick, who hosts The Late Late Show in Ireland, often travels for work, while Cat has taken on new responsibilities as the co-presenter of This Morning in 2023 alongside Ben Shephard. A source told OK!: "They are a really strong couple and have been through a lot together. They’ve navigated their busy careers and the challenges of raising children with grace. They’re determined to make the relationship work."
The Gun Scare
In 2020, while living in Los Angeles, Cat and Patrick were caught up in a terrifying gun scare that involved their young son, Milo. The incident occurred at a Los Angeles shopping mall when an armed situation unfolded nearby. The family was understandably shaken by the event, which left Cat and Patrick reevaluating their living situation and the safety of their children.
Tough Decisions
Realizing that Los Angeles was no longer a suitable place to raise their children, Cat and Patrick made the tough decision to change their environment for the safety and well-being of their family.
Family Tragedy
Unfortunately, Cat was notably absent from the funeral of her mother-in-law, Mary Kielty, in March 2025. Mary Kielty passed away at 84, leaving a legacy behind in Northern Ireland, where Patrick Kielty serves as the host of The Late Late Show.
Vow Rejection
Remarkably, Cat has expressed that she has no intention of renewing her wedding vows with Patrick, citing her limited involvement in their initial wedding planning. Her stance reflects the complexities and realities of their enduring relationship.